Titus 1:5-9
“I left you on the island of Crete so you could complete our work there and appoint elders in each town as I instructed you. An elder must live a blameless life. He must be faithful to his wife, and his children must be believers who don’t have a reputation for being wild or rebellious. A church leader is a manager of God’s household, so he must live a blameless life. He must not be arrogant or quick-tempered; he must not be a heavy drinker, violent, or dishonest with money. Rather, he must enjoy having guests in his home, and he must love what is good. He must live wisely and be just. He must live a devout and disciplined life. He must have a strong belief in the trustworthy message he was taught; then he will be able to encourage others with wholesome teaching and show those who oppose it where they are wrong.”
5. Spirit-controlled instead of sin controlled – Vs 7-8
Leaders are called to live wisely not worldly. We are called to be just not jerks. Not only do we need to talk about alcohol we need to talk about anger. If you want to be a faithful leader then you are going to deal with your emotions. Look its ok to be emotionally engaged but it’s not ok to be enraged. Are you letting anger or the Almighty control you? Paul points to two devils that we need to deal with, a quick temper and violent behavior. Today instead of dealing with these devils we are blaming our behavior on others saying you make me so mad. Your anger comes out of you, it is in you. The people around you may have pressured you but they didn’t produce the anger, just like me squeezing a skunk doesn’t mean I make the stench. Do you want to know why you have a short fuse, it’s because you are following your feelings instead of following the Father. If we don’t start dealing with the temperature of our temper then we will become bruisers instead of blessings and instead of caring for people we will end up controlling people.
6. A Foundation built of Faith not Feelings
If you want to be a teacher of truth then you have to be a student of scripture. One of the greatest weaknesses in the church today is pastors who are trying to preach the Word but not practicing it. We are called to use the bible to both encourage and exhort, to comfort and convict. Which means you are not always going to be the most popular person. Too many pastors today are spending their time trying to get people to like them instead of loving the Lord. Pastors you are not called to be people pleasers you are called to be truth proclaimers. There will be stressful seasons and it’s in those seasons that you need to trust God’s truth and let scripture sustain you. The question we need to be asking ourselves is not just are we in the Word but is the Word in us?
Paul didn’t call Titus to look for perfect people he called him to look for men whose love for the Lord was evident in the way they were living their lives. You see there was only ever one perfect person and they crucified him. I want to close by reading you a report from a search committee that were looking for the perfect pastor because it puts things into perspective:
We have not been able to find a suitable candidate for this church, though we have one promising prospect. Thank you for your suggestions. We have followed up on each one with interviews or by calling at least three references. The following is our report.
ADAM: Ancestry could not be confirmed. Good man but has problems with his wife.
NOAH: Had former pastorate of 120 years with no converts. Prone to unrealistic building projects. Great animal lover, but the last neighborhood received a flood of complaints.
MOSES: A modest and meek man, but poor communicator; even stutters at times. Sometimes blows his stack and acts rashly in business meetings. History says he was a basket case from the beginning.
DAVID: The most promising leader of all until we discovered his adultery.
SOLOMON: Has had serious relationship problems. Independently wealthy, so the church could pay him less and he can make up the difference.
ELIJAH: Prone to depression; collapses under pressure.
JOHN: Says he is a Baptist, but doesn’t dress like one. Sleeps in the outdoors, has a weird diet, and provokes denominational leaders.
PETER: Has a bad temper, even said to have cursed on occasions. He’s a loose cannon.
PAUL: Powerful CEO type and fascinating preacher but has been known to preach all night.
JESUS: Has had popular times occasionally, but once when his church grew overnight to 5000, he managed to offend them all with too hard a message; eventually his flock dwindled down to twelve people… then finally to eleven, and even the faithful finally left his team. Critics report he seldom stays in one place very long, is easily distracted by poor, sick, and needy people, so doesn’t focus on ministry. Spends too much time in meditation, needs to attend more of the organizational meetings without making a spectacle of himself and displaying his temper. Oh… and he hangs around with sinners most of the time. Rumor has it he got crossed up with the government at one point, and they buried him with accusations. He’s not a quitter, however, and keeps popping up here and there. Summary: We intend to keep looking until we find the perfect pastor for our congregation.
Conclusion: Elders are not perfect people they are people who are continually pursuing Christ and living out His character.
When you read the qualifications set forth in scripture, God emphasizes the importance of
Leaders in the church are not just called to be theologically competency they are called to be possess Christ like character. Look information doesn’t lead to transformation just as the Pharisees, its information coupled with application that leads to transformation. So what do you need to apply today?
Moments in the life of a Pastor 