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45 Test 8: The Pride Test, Part 4

James series – “The Litmus Test for life”

James 4:1-6

What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don’t they come from your desires that battle within you? You desire but do not have, so you kill. You covet but you cannot get what you want, so you quarrel and fight. You do not have because you do not ask God. When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures. You adulterous people] don’t you know that friendship with the world means enmity against God? Therefore, anyone who chooses to be a friend of the world becomes an enemy of God. Or do you think Scripture says without reason that he jealously longs for the spirit he has caused to dwell in us?  But he gives us more grace. That is why Scripture says: “God opposes the proud but shows favor to the humble.”

After looking at the symptoms of selfish pride James now reveals: 

  • The source of selfish pride – 4:6

What is the primary source of selfish pride? Verse 6 makes it abundantly clear that pride doesn’t come from God. As a matter of fact, He is completely and totally opposed to it. The word that’s used for opposed here is actually a military term, that pictures a full army lined up locked and loaded for battle. Back when I was in college my roommate was called up to go and fight in the first Gulf War Operation Desert Storm. But leading up to that was another operation called Desert Shield. For weeks coalition forces shipped their military equipment and people to the desert to wait for the call to invade. This is the picture that James paints of how God resists the proud. He lines up all of His heavenly army to stand in opposition to our pride. Why does He do that, why is it that offensive to Him? Do you remember the reason that Satan fell in the first place? God had created him as an angel of light, but his pride attempted to elevate himself above God. Adam and Eve’s sin was rooted in pride. Satan told them that if they ate of the fruit of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, they could be like God. Out of their pride, that’s what they wanted. They wanted to be autonomous. They didn’t want anyone telling them what to do. That’s pride. And pride has been at the core of every sin ever committed since then. The very word itself conveys that. The original comes from two words put together. The first is the word we get our word hyper from. The second means to appear, or to be made manifest. When you put them together, they mean the act of arrogantly elevating yourself until you appear to be above others, even God. But in reality its all an appearance, because there is no way we can truly elevate ourselves above God. God is God and we’re not. There was no way in the Garden that Adam and Eve could truly become like God, as they quickly found that out. So where does it come from? If it’s not from God, what is the source of pride? Well, this is one that we can’t blame on the Devil. While he can tempt us to give in to pride, pride is something we come up with all on our own. Satan tempted Adam and Eve with fruit, he lied to them about what it would do for them. But the fact that they wanted to eat the fruit to become like God that was all on their own. The source of pride is our sinful heart. It happens when we elevate our heart to a place that only God should occupy. Which God won’t tolerate, He stands opposed to it with His complete arsenal. He just hasn’t pulled the trigger yet. That will happen in the judgment. We’ve seen the symptoms of selfish pride as well as the source of selfish pride so what’s the cure? How can we escape such a judgment? One word grace. God gives grace to the humble. 


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44 Test 8: The Pride Test, Part 3

James series – “The Litmus Test for life”

James 4:1-5

What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don’t they come from your desires that battle within you? You desire but do not have, so you kill. You covet but you cannot get what you want, so you quarrel and fight. You do not have because you do not ask God. When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures. You adulterous people] don’t you know that friendship with the world means enmity against God? Therefore, anyone who chooses to be a friend of the world becomes an enemy of God. Or do you think Scripture says without reason that he jealously longs for the spirit he has caused to dwell in us?

  • The third symptom is friendship with the world. 

When the obsession of your life is you, it can’t be God. When you become obsessed with feeding your all-consuming lusts, you no longer have a desire for the things of God. In fact, you can’t even really think about God. But God will not take second place to anything in your life. Its His first commandment. In Exodus 20:3, God said, “You must not have any other god but me.” God is not just talking about things like Mohammed and Buddha and Krishna, He’s talking about you. Your selfish lusts and consuming desires. Anything in this world that you obsess over is your god. Whether it’s your desires, your home, your health, or your stuff it doesn’t matter. God will not put up with anything in this world that He created being elevated in your heart over Him. Friendship with the world makes us an enemy of God because God will not share His glorious throne with anybody or anything. 

  • The fourth symptom is envy. 

Envy is an extreme form of jealousy and is the outcome and result of lust. Think about it, if your heart is full of lust toward an object, it is all you obsess on. No matter how much of it you consume, you still want more and more and more. To the point that it has become the god and sole desire of your life. So how are you going to feel when other people have what you want? If you lust for success, are you going to feel joy in the success of others? No, you will feel jealousy. That’s how lust works. It is an appetite that is never satisfied. It is an all-consuming fire that just grows and grows. It is elevating the object of your desire to the place of God in your life which results in envy and jealousy toward other people. James says that’s why we fight. When you start to feel sick, what do you do? You take your temperature. You look at the back of your throat. You check your symptoms. Do you show any of the symptoms of selfish pride because if you do, you need to get to the source of the problem.