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3 The Relationship of Prayer

Psalm 91: 1-2, 9, 15

He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty. 2 I will say of the Lord, “He is my refuge and my fortress, my God, in whom I trust.”

9 If you make the Most High your dwelling even the Lord, who is my refuge—

15 He will call upon me, and I will answer him; I will be with him in trouble, I will deliver him and honor him.

Psalm 91 is a beautiful picture of an intimate prayer life; in it we see a call to prayer but notice that it comes at the end of the psalm in verse 15. First, Psalm 91 starts out with a call to dwell with the Lord, the front end of prayer is not about demanding but dwelling. Prayer in not a problem-solving tool, prayer is a way of life; it is a personal call to do life with God. To dwell means to remain and a dwelling is not a place that we go to it is a place that we live in. Yet it is more than just where we live it’s about making oneself at home, it’s about not being an occasional guest. Likewise, our relationship with God should not consist of an occasional visit for the solely purpose of helping us out of trouble.

Jesus reinforced this insight when he said, “If you remain in me and my words remain in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be given you.” (John 15:7) It is tempting for us to grab at the last part of Christ’s statement and fail to grasp the significance of the first part. We respond to the “ask whatever you wish, and it will be given you” part of the promise but do we relish the “remain” part? If we’re going to ask so that God answers our prayers, we must “remain” in Christ and His words must “remain” in us. Prayer is a response to a personal relationship not a problem. To further emphasize this point of dwelling with God I want to remind you of how Psalm 91 shows up in the New Testament.

Psalm 91 is well known because verses 11-12 are the scriptures that the devil quoted when he tempted Jesus in the wilderness. “If you are the Son of God,” he said, “throw yourself down. For it is written:’ He will command his angels concerning you, and they will lift you up in their hands, so that you will not strike your foot against a stone.’” (Matthew 4:6)

Satan is always twisting truth and he leaves out the statement found in verse 9 “If you make the Most High your dwelling” Satan had these verses of the Bible memorized but he wasn’t dwelling in God’s presence. Jesus wasn’t the least bit fooled by Satan’s distorted view of scripture, because he was doing life in the presence of the Father. Jesus knew that prayer was not a lucky rabbit’s foot or four-leaf clover that you carried in your hip pocket. God isn’t a genie in a bottle that you rub and get three wishes from when you want them. Talking to God is much more effective when we’ve been walking with Him, and Psalm 91 is a call to seek His face not just His hand. The psalmist says that one of the results of being in a relationship with God is rest, resting in His love, forgiveness, power and protection. Prayer is not about results but about relationship, it’s not about getting but about being. Verse 2 says that dwelling also results in trusting, “my God, in whom I trust” trust is always built in the context of relationships. When you need a favor, who are we going to ask, a friend or a stranger? Naturally you are going to ask a friend because you have a relationship with them and you trust them. How would you categorize your relationship with God, friend or stranger? Does your prayer life flow out of doing life with Jesus or in response to life?

Prayer is not about the results it’s about the relationship and out of the relationship flow the results. Psalm 91 starts with a relationship, dwelling in His presence, and then goes on to show us the overflow of results from this relationship:

V. 1 – REST in God’s shadow.

V. 2,4 – REFUGE in God’s fortress.

V. 3 – REDEMPTION from temptation.

V. 5-6 – RELIANCE upon His promises.

V. 7-8 – RETRIBUTION upon the enemy.

V. 9-10 – RESORT from wrath.

V. 11-12 – REINFORCEMENT from angels.

V. 13-14 – RESCUE from danger.

V. 15 – REQUESTS answered.

V. 16 – RESILIENCE promised.


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2 Crying Out to God

Psalm 66:16-20

16Come and listen, all you who fear God, and I will tell you what he did for me.17For I cried out to him for help, praising him as I spoke. 18If I had not confessed the sin in my heart, the Lord would not have listened. 19But God did listen! He paid attention to my prayer. 20Praise God, who did not ignore my prayer or withdraw his unfailing love from me.

David had a big problem, and like David, sometimes we will find ourselves in serious situations which we can let dictate our response to life. David reminds us that we don’t have to respond to the problems of life by focusing on them because we have something bigger than problems, we have the person of Jesus Christ. What are you going to respond to, the problem or the person of Jesus, are you going to panic or pray? David chose to respond to God with everything he had “he cried out to God”. Many times we hold back in our response to God but one of the greatest things we can do is to cry out to Him. Are you facing a difficult situation, do you need God to deliver you? Who are you turning to, who will you cry out to?

David understood that it was God alone who could deliver. He teaches us several things about deliverance as we look backwards through these verses and depend on God through prayer.

  •  David’s preparation for deliverance v. 18

Many times we just want God to fix or change our situation, what is going on around me, but is that the real problem? Often the perceived problem that shows up on the outside is really tied to the personal problem that is raging inside. David was willing to prepare to be delivered by peering into what was happening on the inside. David’s inspection of his own heart revealed the real problem – sin. David knew the power of God and he understood that only God could deliver. He also knew about the power of sin and he understood the barrier of sin. Our prayers will be ineffective if our lifestyle is in contradiction with our lips. Are your lips saying one thing and your life saying another? Our character and our conduct should match and when our lips praise while our life profanes we have a problem. When we become polluted and poisoned our prayer life becomes paralyzed and powerless. Sin has the power to dominate and dictate our lives to take control and become the captain, holding us captive as we become caught by its crippling condition. David sought God’s deliverance first from sin and then the situation. Are we more concerned with results or repentance, with the fixing or forgiveness? David reveals a heart that is right with God, a heart that is prepared for His deliverance. Is there anything that prevents you from praying effectively? Do you need to look inward and take inventory of your heart?

  • David’s Position for deliverance. Vs 17

So many times we try everything we can do to fix the situation first, and then we say “I guess all I can do now is pray.” It’s almost as if we feel like we have to “give in” to prayer instead of we get to pray. The position of prayer is humility and David’s cry to God was not just a cry about the situation it was also a cry of surrender. He was surrendering his way, his life, and his power. We dislike surrender because it’s a loss of control and it makes us feel powerless and vulnerable. David wasn’t crying out because he was in control and we need to understand that we are already powerless and vulnerable. Crying out to God, surrendering our lives to Him, opens the flood gates of His power so we can experience the surge of His peace. Do you need to surrender today?

  • David’s proclamation of deliverance Vs 16

David wanted to share what God had done for him, his testimony, not only of God’s power but God’s personal care “what he did for me”. Many times we focus more on the problem than the person of Jesus, but God cares about us. We get to that place where we cry out to God with the problem but do we cry out to others with the praise?  God had done great things for David and he wanted everyone to know about it. Praise should be the result of a clean heart crying out to God. God deserves our praise and the world deserves to know about His power. David is essentially telling us the score, God – 1, the difficult circumstances of his life – 0. When we cry out with praise it will encourage others to cry out to the Lord in their despair and in their need of deliverance. Do you need to cry out in praise?